what the fuck is up it's coach Kyle welcome to tonight's lecture how to game at house parties house parties 101 everything you need to know about going to a party outside of a bar or club slightly different mindset slightly different approach we're gonna start at the end ironically enough and I think you should always be doing this you always want to start with the end goal in mind meaning before I even go to the party or even if I'm hosting the party doesn't matter this the situation I need to know how I'm gonna be closing where I'm gonna be closing what kind of activities I could offer to maybe pull the girl from the venue okay I don't want to be going there with no idea of any of this and then just blindly waiting til the end of the night and then maybe I get a girl maybe I don't and then once I get her fuck where am I taking her you know go there with your room already fucking made and I an activity you could do at your house after the party itself and then keep that in mind when you're gaming at the at the party okay so you want to be always keeping the end goal in mind if that's your goal alright so huge point whether you're going to the bar whether you're going to a house party always have that in the back of your mind before you even get there this should be like easy example I'm going out tonight my rooms already fucking clean and I have a hookah and I have a bottle of wine okay so I know when I go out and I find a girl that I'm into and you know I'm gonna try to go for the pull I'm pulling her on the idea of like smoking hookah and maybe having a glass of wine and just chilling out vibing to good music okay need to have all of that and bring a condom with you by the way when you go out just just because you never know what the fuck's gonna happen alright so let's talk about the party itself why is everybody at this party you got to keep this in mind by the way it's not just gonna be how to get the girl I'm gonna show you guys how I would interact throughout the party how I would kind of like take over the party so to speak so you so you got to understand why is everybody at the party essentially it's to feel good really they're there to have fun feel good experience good emotions that's that's what you should know and another thing you don't know is that everybody the party is pretty stifled honestly it you walk into the party and now that you know game you kind of get in your head thinking like fuck how do I approach this and that but what you don't understand is that everybody else is stifled and they're literally only gonna talk to the people they know but they're literally there to meet people and socialize it's just like nobody everyone's afraid to break the ice but everybody wants to do it everybody wants to be in a party socializing with a shitload of people and having fun that's why they're there okay but 95% of people they're just pussies so they're either going to get blacked-out drunk or they're just gonna talk to their clique or they're gonna be in the corner fucking quiet as fuck okay so with that with that in mind dude the bar is set so fucking low I don't want you to think when you go in I must take over the party I must be the life of the party all you really need to do is be better than 95% of guys which is like the bars down here if the fucking bar if this this is how high the bars come from the ground okay so you really not there's not a lot of pressure okay keep that in mind when you're going to the party okay cuz that me personally when I was getting in the game I walked into these these venues and stuff I would be sowing my head so nervous afraid to do anything but the reality is dude you have more knowledge than all of these people and they're shy as fuck you don't need to do much to be better than most men there will be a couple people that aren't stifled okay the the hubs of the party the center of attention in these parties there's always going to be one two three of these people okay it's either the dude hosting the party because he knows everybody or just a really social guy who knows a lot of people there or a really hot girl that gets a lot of attention from people these are like the hugs at the party you want to look at these people as like your primary targets to become friends with okay because by becoming friends with them you're introduced to everybody that they know okay so like instead of targeting the fucking loser in the corner that doesn't know anybody you're like if I'd go up and talk to him that pretty much only connects me to him but if I make friends with the dude who's the center of the party I just got grandfathered into the whole party if you think about it that way okay so majority people are gonna be playing it safe there's gonna be a couple people that aren't playing it safe that are socially confident that are cool fun people with good vibes you want to target them because they are connected to the whole party so by connecting to them you're then connected to the whole party okay so keep that in mind when you're when you're in there I'm walking in the party I walked into the party I'm not just walking through the entire party looking for that dude I'm gonna start interacting with people the second I get in there okay even if I don't even if I don't know them I'm walking in I'm gonna keep my interactions brief but make sure my presence is known to everybody my presence is known you will know I have arrived not that I'm fucking kicking down the door and saying what's up fucking coach Kyle and a building bow down nothing like that but I'm walking in and I'm social and I'm just chill and I'm not threatening I'm there to provide people with good emotions because that's why they're there okay so I'm going in kind of under the radar but social I'm walking into the party see a couple people don't be afraid to just go up as I'm walking in and be like hey what's up dude what's going on assume rapport when you're walking into the party assume even if you don't know a single fucking person in there walk in and assume rapport because again everyone's there to be social just nobody wants to break the ice and if it's a house party or some shit and I walk in and say hey what's up dude what's going on the dudes not gonna be like fuck you get out of here you know like because then he knows we're about to be together partying for a long time so everybody's trying to keep it cool it's easy to just walk in and like hey what's up dude what's going on how's it going tonight am i late and my early fuck I did the hot bitches already leave or like Oh what are you drinking tonight or dude you seem like the fucking life of the party bro like no everybody's fucking huddled or I gotta fucking show with this guy you see I'm like low-key it's a good energy he's gonna good about that he's gonna enjoy my presence as long as I'm not over-the-top with it and as long as I'm not coming off threatening that's easy to do as I'm walking in I'm saying what's up to everybody briefly okay my presence is known from the second I get in there big point big point to UM incorporate next thing I want to do I've said I've said what's up to a couple different people ideally I know either I came with somebody or I know somebody at the party like otherwise why would I have been invited to the party you know there's somebody at the party I know the next thing I'm gonna do is find that person because they know other people that's an easy way to get connected to other people I find that person whoever they're talking to I'm now gonna be introduced to through that connecting piece so I find the person I know hey what's up John what's going on brother or Michelle what's up how you doing what's going on small talk for a little bit and then I ask are these all your friends are like who'd you come here with that's pretty much forcing her to introduce me to other people okay or I just asked me like oh who do you know here who invited who invited you here like in a teasing kind of way right and then through that I can find out who she's with and get introduced to them or these all your friends right here okay cool yeah I'm literally just walking and I don't really know a lot of people yell introduced me to them hey guys what's up this is Kyle hey what's up how you doing tonight confident smiling good energy talking pretty loud a slightly louder than everybody else in there I'm not screaming but if there's these all these different spectrums of volumes and there's a couple people talking at this volume I'm gonna match like one of the higher volumes at the party okay I'm not gonna be over-the-top but I'm gonna be at that top level depending on how how loud the room is okay so I'm walking in talking kind of loud good eye contact smiling getting introduced to a couple people hey this is Kyle hey what's up how you doing tonight bah bah bah bah bah from there all I want to do is make a small observation that I see about the person okay I don't want to just say hey what's up I'm Kyle hey what's up I'm Kyle hey what's up I'm Kyle that's you're not gonna get remembered that way okay the way you make a good impression is you're walking in you you get introduced smile handshake or hug if it's a girl and then a quick comment or observation about them that that gives them a good feeling good energy good emotion okay so example oh I already told you what I would say to a couple of other guys if I walked in but if I food was like Michelle and she's introducing me to her girls I could comment on you know this group has good energy or this girl look this group is that this group looks like the fucking troublemakers of the party yeah I see all you guys are drinking tequila tonight oh fuck out fuck you Latinas and tequila oh my god I gotta get away from here this is like dude you say that when you walk in that's a good first impression for somebody they don't know that I just got introduced by another female and I'm just coming off confident and fun and social and if they're already a little tipsy that that comments gonna hit well and then one of them is gonna say something and I build off of that we're not troubled yeah okay look at that look at that fucking face yeah are you serious Michelle this is Leo these actually your friends are like something like that right or let's say she's like no we are trouble like oh fuck I knew it yeah okay okay that's what's up you guys that's we're gonna have some fun tonight then you drink it tequila okay cool that's that's the simple beginning of the conversation with the group and honestly if you come in well-groomed introduced by a female and I'm confident talking to a group of girls doing that dude there's already gonna be attraction there's already gonna be attraction I get introduced to a couple people I start some small talk with them I get their names try to remember their names if you can incorporate their name two or three sentences later too it helps one it helps you remember their name but two it makes it unconsciously builds a little bit of rapport with them and people fucking love hearing their own name so if you can incorporate that incorporate that because later on when you do remember her name it's an easy way to open her again later like when she's walking by it I just bump into her oh what's up Michelle are you fucked up Oh fucking lightweight would you take fucking two shots of tequila something like that okay and I don't know this girl I was introduced to her I made one comment about them being trouble or fun or whatever and then later on I can reopen her you know and either say you're a fucking lightweight or wow you actually are fun you weren't lying or wow you actually totally are trouble I would my initial instinct was right fuck oh I knew it I should have just follow my gut why why do I always fall Finnish aid these fucking scheming s Latinas oh my god these are good these are good things to say no at a house party with with girls this I could tell like it would hit nicely okay so I'm getting introduced to a couple women like that talk to them for a couple minutes while I'm talking to them I'm looking around the room okay the goal really is to meet everybody at the party that's how we're gonna build the highest value we're gonna be we're gonna be known at the party by a lot of people we're gonna be socializing with a lot of people and because of that all the people that don't know us are actually going to be drawn in to us and more likely to want to start conversation with us so once I'm in an interaction I'm looking around for anybody that's in the area that I could also bring into the conversation okay I'm talking to a couple girls it's a house party so we're in like a living room or some shit I'm already talking to them there's people right here oh wait you tricking captain oh fuck yes Theon see I mean I usually do drink tequila but the captain like you see how I just brought this random person into the fucking conversation like that it's an easy way to just merge the set and I don't even know this person observational opener about whatever the fuck they're drinking or whatever game they're playing and then from there I merge them back into the initial conversation by doing a call back to whatever they're doing right oh so like they look like trouble these girls are playing a game yo i love the fucking energy over here yeah why can't you be like this honestly this group I don't know what it is about this group over here okay you see how it's all observational but I mean bringing everybody into the conversation I do the same shit at at night night game venues by the way it's great way to just interact with the whole Club observational openers once I've already met a couple people um I'm bringing more people in that way and then from there I do the same thing oh who do you know here our Heat are you here with your girls or do you know them or how do you know John because if it's John party oh how do you how do you know John or oh you don't know John then did you fucking sneak in here yeah or like who would invite now who invited this girl I don't think this girl's supposed to be here right now if you could just apply those principles I just told you and and I and I ended the lecture right there lectures over I end the lecture right there and you just hammer on those points at the party I guarantee you you're gonna have a successful night you're gonna meet a shitload of people there's gonna be several women that will be unconsciously attracted to you and from there but we'll get a little bit further but I can't emphasize enough how important everything I just said was looking go back and re-watch that first fuck in 20 minutes of the shit watch my vibe when I'm delivering these lines watch literally write down the fucking line notice my vibe notice how I'm playful with them noticed my observational statements notice the way I'm opening and merging groups and then using this statement of like oh who do you know here to find new people and get introduced by the new person to them and then when I meet them observational statement start talking about them and then I can ask them also is you just know Michelle or like are you here with your boys or what's up now let me fucking his people I don't know if you realized but at this point there's a fucking crowd around me you know and if I'm talking this confident I got a great vibe going on I'm playing with these people I'm joking over here and oh you got the tequila yeah we definitely need it we need to take a shot or dude hits a fucking shot on the pond shit yeah we gotta take a shot this kid just fucking pop shit provide good emotions man good emotions good vibe let's say you're more beginner and you walk into the party and you fail to open anybody okay let's say we walked in a oh shit dudes making eye contact I broke eye contact walkthrough uh fuck let me go get a drink and then I go into the kitchen right that's like very beginner level but you know I've been there myself to go into the kitchen what can we do how can we start this we already fucked up a little bit how can we how can we recover observational statement to anybody just say something to somebody okay you need to be able to do that bro you need to be able to do that if you can't grow a fucking pair of balls and make one approach to a dude at a party you don't want it bad enough straight-up okay but again if you're going to a party you most likely know at least one person there so let's just go back and apply what I said use that person to introduce you to whoever the fuck they know they're and if neither of you know anybody there you find one dude and you just start small talk with them through an observational statement about whatever damn bro this is all they got it's fucking natty ice here what is this fucking high school party or whatever I don't know why that came to momma but whatever is going on in that environment observational statement say it loud and say it to somebody they will respond even if it's very minimal they will respond okay we're at a party to socialize here okay that's how I would start creating connections in the environment how can we how can we provide value to the party couple things women to the party or be interacting with women at the party that is automatically valued that's why every dude is having a party is to meet women and to socialize with women so you can bring women you're already walking into the party with value and you haven't even fucking said a word okay girls alcohol weed a hookah music food games you could play ideas you could you could for ideas for games your energy your vibe providing good emotions to people all of these things are providing value and anything I just said is contributing to the environment at the party and even if you can't bring any of that what's even more important is your energy your vibe and providing people with good emotions meaning we're we're we're not afraid to compliment people you know not putting them on a pedestal like nothing that like puts them above me just an observational thing about him that I liked that I could compliment yell dude I just knows you got that you got the New Jordans on well this should sort of fucking fresh I was looking at them I wanted to cop them I really wish I fucking cop them I would have fucking pulled up to this party with them bro but I just beat them and uh yeah they're fresh dude what's your name by the way Jason all right what's good homie what's up yeah don't don't judge me off of my fucking old ass LeBrons easy open or some some kind of compliment about the person their energy or he's surrounded by women or he looks like the fucking party animal he looks like the man of the party he's like really good at beer pong fuck dude I gotta make you my partner next game yo or I'm trying what else is going on at parties but those are common ones I feel like can be applicable into like any party that you're going into one of those things will um will be able to be used okay so that's how I get into the party that's how I meet the whole party and that's how I'm interacting building my value and kind of becoming the life of the party the way I'm becoming the life of the party is ironically by putting the spotlight on other people I'm not craving attention I'm not saying look at me but by giving out such good emotion people are gonna be drawn to me and although I'm putting the spotlight on them that's what makes them feel good and then they want that good emotion and then they're more drawn to me they feel more comfortable with me more people are around me and it just keeps building and building and building okay so that's how I get into it if at an advanced level that's how I would get into it at a more beginner level you got to kind of go in and just start socializing plain and simple you don't got to go up to some girl and you know go super direct on her you know we're going and completely indirect in the beginning let's take it from there I'm in the party I'm interacting with a couple people I already know how I'm gonna close or where I'm gonna close or what's going on I've already interacted with a couple girls at this point there's probably somebody that wants to keep socializing with me that's think that's a good qualified lead okay that's a good opportunity that you know if assuming she's somewhat attractive that's a good opportunity to potentially start moving the interaction forward just a little bit okay so I'm socializing with her I can see that there's a little bit of Attraction but I'm not going direct at a at a party at a house party I'm really not going direct on this girl until a little bit further into the interaction until I've really seen that you know there's clearly some attraction here then I can I can move it up a little bit but you don't want to be going in to a party and doing direct occult approaches okay because one or two of those you're already gonna it's already gonna be a weird vibe in the environment knowing like some girl fucking and just rejected you and then you can't go back into that room because she's in there and it's awkward we're going indirect on everybody to begin with we're in the party we have a couple girls showing a little bit of interest or interacting with them we're teasing them joking with them if you don't know how to do any of that shit go back and watch game 101 102 103 104 105 okay I'm not going over exactly how to game this go you should have a good understanding of how to run pickup at this point I'm giving you more of the structure of taking over the party and then once we have one or two potential candidates we're gonna slowly start to figure out what her logistics are and slowly start escalating on her okay that means at some point we're getting physical with her at some point were flirting we're teasing we're joking we're pushing her away a little bit we're injured we're interacting with other girls she sees me interacting with other girls I'm bringing other people into the conversation this is gonna create a high level of attraction the next step finding logistics figuring out who the fuck can actually come with me tonight if um if that's what I'm looking for or maybe there's a really hot girl who doesn't have good logistics if that's the case and if she's hot enough I'll stay in the interaction with her and make a really strong phone number with her okay so there's gonna come a point in the party probably depends on how long the party is but before the peak of the party if the party energy goes like this and then it Peaks and then it slowly starts trickling out before the peak of the party I want to already kind of determined who are my targets and which one is actually worth pursuing for the rest of the night so by the end of the first half of the night you want to know who your target is and what the goal is meaning if it's a really hot girl and I want to stick on her I'm gonna stick on her she got bad logistics okay that means my goal with this girl is to create a strong enough connection have some future projections and ideally have her agreeing to meet up again to do some kind of an activity okay if you're unsure about how to do any of that go back and watch the comfort and the deep comfort pretty much just watch game 101 102 103 103 5 at this point okay so we're finding out good I'll play both scenarios all right let's say first we'll do first of all I kind of ready let's let's say first we do the girl that has bad logistics she can't be pulled tonight but I really want this girl I'm staying in the interaction with her at some point I'm gonna get a little bit more serious with her just to get to know her a little bit I don't want her leaving the party thinking yeah that dude was like fun and there was good energy but like I know nothing about him and we don't have a connection and you know I don't think he was even into me you don't want you don't want her thinking that when she leaves what does this mean that means we're gonna show a little bit of intent just a low level of intent at some point and we're gonna start creating a connection and finding commonalities and finding activities that we could potentially be doing in the future throughout the interaction and as that builds and builds and builds were slowly closing her on the idea of meeting up again okay I've done numerous videos on on these kind of topics so I'm not diving too deep into actually closing the girl the other side of things the girl has good logistics and she's down she wants to come smoke she wants to in my case she loves hookah and I didn't bring the hookah to the party she loves hookah and the hookahs at my house and she likes wine she wants to vibe and at that point I'm trying to figure out who's she there with did she arrive there with like how did she get there and what is she got going on the next morning okay big questions you need to know these questions all right need to know these questions otherwise how the fuck are we gonna determine whether or not she can be pulled and I need to find this out before the party is over before the party has died out like I said at the peak of the party and the party Peaks for anywhere from like one to three hours depending on whether or not you're partying with like Hispanic people they party to like fucking 7:00 a.
m.
um but yeah at some point I'm finding out if she has good logistics and it's not at the very end of the night and then slowly I'm pitching the idea of going to afterparty um ideally I'm trying to pull her before the venue closes her before the party is completely dead because once the party is completely dead she's gonna have a tendency to either go with her friends and she doesn't want it she doesn't want that moment where everybody's leaving the party and then everybody sees her separating where's Jessica oh you don't see her she's over that she's going home with that dude who's that dude you don't that's not what you want you know so what you want is get her into a good mood get her to agree to come to after party party's peaked and emotions are high now's a good time to try and start pulling her maybe she gives an objection or two you to solve the objection okay go watch closing 101 it's on my youtube go watch closing 101 if you're not sure how to pull this girl I go in-depth in a 15 minute video describing how to find her logistics how to pull her how to close her okay figure all of that out and then you would successfully pull her back to your house okay that's how I would go about closing a girl has good logistics and then the girl that has bad logistics again I'm I'm really not playing for the pool at that point I may try once or twice the objections are strong cool I'm gonna stay in the set build up the number and and ideally get the number and again I'm not waiting till the fucking end of the night to get the number either okay thanks for watching guys I hope you learned something if you want more of this type of content or if you're looking for one on one coaching be sure to check out my patreon and until next time coach Kyle sign it out [Music].
