There exists a technique so POWERFUL thatfor millennia it was locked away atop Mt Olympus… it made even the most beta of simps uncontrollablysuccessful with the most beautiful of women… 9s.
10s… yes, even those 11s.
Many believed it to exist only in legend…but today I bring this legend to life for you my friends, with the hopes that it willsave you from simp-hood.
This technique is known as, The Power Pause.
Haha ok ok.
Enough of the dramatics.
What exactly is the Power Pause? Let me explain.
The Power Pause is that moment in the conversationwhere you just finished delivering a flirty joke or make a direct statement or proposal, such as inviting her over and instead of rushing to fill the silence, you stop and allow apause to settle in.
You don’t rush to clarify what you meant, or backtrack on what you just said… you stand by it firmly and let the silence addthat extra punch to what you just said.
And the cherry on top to this power pause? The thing that makes it REALLY powerful? Bold eye contact.
Not quickly looking away as if you were tryingto hide your nervousness or insecurity in what you just said.
And if you’re really feelin’ it, thenthrow a smirk in there.
Want a perfect example of this? Check out this scene from James Bond, CasinoRoyale to be specific.
You’ll notice she laughs a few seconds intothe silence… it’s because she’s trying to break the tension that’s establishedby his silence and eye contact.
In that moment when she took her time to respond, she was also testing him… testing his resolve… testing to see trulyhow confident and worthy he is.
Were he to break eye contact or look away, or rush to clarify what he meant, she likely would’ve just turned him down.
But she didn’t.
Now of course this is a movie, but this highlightsthe example of the power pause EXTREMELY well.
During this silence there is an entire conversationhappening via subcommunication, how strong your eye contact is, whether or not you’refidgety, or if you try to follow it up to fill the silence.
With this power pause, you’re subconsciouslysaying, “Yeah I said it.
And I meant it.
Now what are you gonna do about it?” It’s the pinnacle of bold.
You’re standing strong in your frame andinviting her into it.
You’re giving her the chance to fall intoyour frame or reject it, and when you stand by it firmly, she’ll be more than excitedto join in.
It shows her that you’re not some flimsypushover who is being ‘fake-nice’ in an attempt to make her like you.
It’s straightforward and direct.
Not only do you bask in the silence, but youalso keep direct eye contact throughout it.
Don’t look away, don’t flinch.
You just let the silence marinate.
Sexual tension builds up and exists in thesemoments of silence where there’s nothing but eye contact.
This is why it’s important not to buckleunder the pressure, don’t break eye contact until she does.
Don’t answer or say anything until she does, don’t try to correct it or break the silence by changing topics, just maintain eye contact, smirk and don’t break until she says or does something.
The Power Pause can also be used in socialand professional scenarios.
In fact, I learned about this technique fromsales, it’s a commonly used technique when pitching products in person or over the phone.
The silence establishes your confidence andfirmness in your frame.
“The price is the price, ” So to speak.
Another non-romantic example of The PowerPause is when speaking to multiple people.
Oftentimes, when a leader is delivering aspeech or a person is giving a TED Talk, you’ll notice they stop and pause after certain sentences.
The pause serves to grab a person’s attentionand pull their interest back in.
It creates what’s known as a pattern interrupt.
A moment or thing that breaks the patternin a conversation and re-engages the person on the receiving end.
With people constantly on their phone, anddistracted 24/7, using a power pause can INSTANTLY recapture their attention and get them focusedon you.
And if they’re already listening closelyto you, the silence will only captivate them more because it’ll add punch to whateveryou just said.
You ever notice how when you’re doing somethingwrong in class like on your phone, or not paying attention, as soon as the classroomgoes silent, you take notice and look around to make sure nobody caught you… the silencecatches your attention.
It breaks the pattern in their speech.
Power Pauses also have a place in conversationsAFTER the other person says something flirty or direct.
It’s YOUR way of testing their frame andseeing how firm they are in what they just said, whether it’s inviting you back toher place or giving you a flirty tease.
Sometimes it’ll even result in them continuingto talk and investing more and trying to carry the conversation.
Instead of you rushing to fill the silenceto avoid awkwardness they’ll start to do it – or better yet, they’ll pause as welland you guys can feel comfortable with the silence and sexual tension.
a huge stepfor getting closer to intimacy.
And that my friends is a wrap.
You’ve now been granted this piece fromMt.
Olympus, use it responsibly, never for evil.
I recommend utilizing the power pause in allyour interactions any time you want to emphasize a point, establish your frame, and stand firmin your conviction.
However, due to recent events going on inthe world, it looks like you’ll have to stick to using the power pause from the comfortof your own home haha.
Whether on FaceTime with girls you meet fromTinder, or when trying to emphasize a point with your parents while stuck at home.
These are truly crazy times.
The whole world is changing and dating ischanging even faster… but the craziest thing is that dating isn’t on the decline… infact but some stats dating is experiencing a massive boost.
I mean, just look at this message Tinder sentme a few days ago.
Engagement is up in the areas most affectedby the crisis… people and more importantly, girls are chatting on apps like Tinder forlonger than usual, even in the places that are the hardest hit.
Now is the time to not only stay safe by abstainingfrom regular dating at bars and clubs, but to keep your romantic life connected via onlinedating.
Romantic connection is an important part ofbeing human, and although it must undergo a change for the greater good, you don’tneed to cut it out of your life entirely.
You just need to learn how to evolve and adaptwith the times because quite frankly, the guys who don’t learn to adapt to the newdating scene aren’t going to have a chance when all this blows over.
It’s more important than ever for you tomaster the ability to capture girls’ attention via text message and build attraction.
So that when all this is over, and the goodtimes start to roll again, you can have a calendar full with dates with amazing girlsready to go.
For most guys, building attraction from themost beautiful girls is hard enough in person… and even harder when you’re trying to doit behind a screen.
If you’re anything like the average guy, you probably can’t even get a response from the girl you like.
That’s why me and my team spent over a yearcreating my flagship texting course, The Godly Texting Guide.
Here’s a sneak peek of what you’ll learninside: the types of text messages you can send tomake hot girls chase and text YOU first My 100 Best Opening Lines that are guaranteedto make girls respond to YOU, you can literally copy/paste these lines and start making girlslike you, immediately The Magnifying Method: how to effortlesslyflirt with women over text and keep the conversation so engaging, she’ll be staring at her phonescreen waiting for you to respond And since my course is all about texting, you’ll be able to use the techniques on any dating app, as long as you have a keyboardand a girl to talk to, you’ll have everything you need to be successful with beautiful women.
It’s important to change with the timesand learn how to be successful at dating during this new era we’re living through.
Now you can be responsible by staying homeand avoiding conventional dating, while also getting ahead of the competition and masteringmessaging girls online.
Once this is all over and the world returnsto normal, online dating will be bigger than ever… use this time to not only practiceit, but master it… Stay safe out there my friends! Zeus out!.