Ladies, stop with a habit of wearing your ugliestclothes just because you are home.
Instead, I want you to look like this.
My dear elegant ladies, welcome back to another video.
Today, I have a highly requested video for you.
I know you want to knowhow to look elegant at home and considering that we are now quarantine ladies, this video is quite suitable.
First thing first ladies, I want you to go to your wardrobe afterthis video and I want you to throw away everything with holes, everything that's worn out, everything that you bought in places likeH&M and then wore for about 10 years, everything that colors are washed out, everything that's old, nasty looking, everythingthat looks very juvenile.
Go take it by the hair andjust throw it away right now, not right now after the video.
We are elegant ladies.
We're grown-up ladies.
We don't know wear any cartooncharacters on the our home clothes.
We don't wear sweat pants.
We don't wear Mickey Mouse.
We don't wear Betty Boop or Snoopy.
We dress like adults andadults don't wear a worn out, ugly looking clothes.
Adults take responsibility for theirappearance and then make an effort.
I want you to also ask yourselfa very important question.
How much time do you spend at home? Are you one of those who like me, work from home and you actually spend a lot of time at home or are you those with a moreactive lifestyle outside of your home? Meaning that you only use your apartmentor your house for sleeping mainly and maybe a few hours here and there.
Why I'm asking you this is because thisis what's going to make you understand, how much money you should beinvesting in your home clothes.
The more time you spend, the more money you should bespending on your clothes at home.
It's funny how we have this thing inour head that we spend a lot of money on the clothes that we go out in, like we can spend a thousand on a dressbut we can not spend $200 on a pair of really nice pajamas.
Instead, we goto maybe some fast fashion shops, get something really cheap for like$10 and then we wear it year after year after year, even ifthey have holes.
Brilliant! Every household has its own dress codeand you have to understand that there is no etiquette for what you should bewearing at home freely if you want to wear your rags at home, you can do it.
At home, etiquette is not strict.
We create our own dress codeand depending on your household, your household will have its own rules.
Maybe if you are a big family, then you might have different dress code than somebody who just lives with their partner.
A good examplewould be actually myself, I live with my partner so we have amore relaxed address code at home.
I can easily lounge around in my pajamas, while if it's like after eight o'clock at night.
But in a different household, you wouldn't be wearing a pajama at all to lounge around in as a family.
You might have a biggerfamily where actually, more loungewear would be appropriate to wear when you're watching TV in the living room.
So you need to understandwhat is appropriate for you and what is appropriate for your family.
Set your own rules.
But this video is really about youelevating how you treat yourself at home, even though it's behind closed doors, even if you live by yourself.
I want you to step up your wardrobe one notch because you are going to feel more confident with yourself.
You're going to feel much more feminine.
That is probably the biggest plus ofthis whole video and you're going to feel better with your whole self as a result.
How do we feel when we just let ourselvesgo and don't look after ourselves? We don't feel good about ourselves.
So that's why it's really important whenyou spend so many hours in your home that you actually feel proud of yourself, proud of how you look and you passingby the mirror and just like look at yourself a little extra time and feel, “hmmm, I look good, I feel good”.
This is how I want you tostart living your life after this video.
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So I'm going to dividethis in four parts.
Now, the first part is about what you wear as loungewear and what you wear in what climate.
The other part will be what you wear fornighttime when you go to sleep and for what climate.
So what is loungewear? Loungewear is what we wear whenwe just lounge around the house.
It could be things that we wearduring daytime.
As an example, if I'm working from home andmaybe I want to feel comfortable, I will be wearing my loungewear.
This is definitely my go to outfit.
I think it's cute.
I think it'scasual and not too dress down, not to dressed up, perfect and you can actually even leaveyour home like this if you need to run a quick errand.
Or like I said, if you are in the bigger household whereyou wouldn't be lounging around in the pajamas, you would be wearing somethingthat is more like loungewear.
One of the perks of living in a coldclimate is actually the loungewear that you can wear because one of the nicestloungewear is to have like a really nice cashmere set.
Oftentimes, if you want to look elegantand expensive even at home, they should always be matching soyou buy always things in the set.
So a nice gray or camel cashmere set, definitely a good investment.
Maybe you wear them with a nice pairof cashmere socks.
In the winter, even if you have central heating, you might want to wear long trousers, long sleeves, and maybe not somuch shorts or dresses.
However, you can wear longer dresses if they're knitted and you can also have nice throw overs, like nice cardigans and such.
I personally like to wear palazzo trousersat home and those actually work for both cold and warm climate.
Ladies, this is one of my favorite outfitsfor casual lounging around at home.
These trousers are made out ofsilky satin material.
Actually, these are quite affordable.
They came from River Island and I boughtthem many years ago and they still lasted.
I think what's important to think aboutfor loungewear in winter is that you can layer, you should definitely layerwith like cardigans and longer fabrics.
And you don't have to think that youhave to wear bulky sweaters and thick materials, not at all.
You can layer many times withthinner wool or cashmere, or even fabrics like modal orviscose or jersey.
You can see, it's very light.
It's almost see-through, but it's very comfortable when you wear it, really lays nicely on the body.
It's very like stretchy and jersey-like.
This is definitely something cozy towear at home and you can spend hours and hours in this, and just feelvery comfortable.
Ultimately, it's never that cold indoors evenif you don't have central heating, but the trick is to wear long sleeves.
So what about in warm weather? Well, here we really have to thinkabout the materials we're wearing.
In the warm weather, if you wantto look elegant and expensive, then wearing something like linen, even though it gets a little bit wrinkly.
But trust me, linen is a very sophisticated materialthat I really think everybody should own something in that material.
Very comfortable bleeds light, will definitely handle warm weather.
I have a beautiful linen dress that I'meager to show you and this is such a good example of how you can lookfeminine and chic, even at home.
It's still covering, it's still feminine and this belt reallymakes it very feminine because you can actually show your silhouette, even though this is a loose dress.
You don't have to wear always trousers.
You can actually wear a dress andif you are in a warmer climate, definitely think about wearingdresses.
They can be longer, they can be shorter, but dresses reallymake you feel feminine.
As you can see, I'm wearing a dress right now and thisis actually a dress that I bought in Bali.
The fabric is so nice.
Yes, I know it's black.
It's not really my color, but whenI go back to Bali, I will buy more.
The material is really nice.
It's like a jersey viscose material.
It's very light and I wearthis in 30 degrees heat, so I know that this materialdoesn't make you feel that hot.
Same goes for when you wear silk, even though silk is a tricky materialbecause it does get very wrinkly.
But it does make you look elegant.
I really think if you want to add thatlittle luxurious flavor to yourself when you are at home, when youfeel like you are $1 million, then definitely wear something with silk, even if it's just a nice littlecami top or a nice little skirt.
Treat yourself when you are home.
Don't get lazy, don't get comfortable, don't put on the ugliest thing you own.
I really don't know who invented orwho programmed us to put on the worst clothes that we own at home.
What is the logic of that? I really don't understand.
Considering that if you are married orin a relationship and you live with your partner, if he sees you wearing your rags, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, Okay, this is a no go.
I would never everdress like this at home.
Do you think that's going to elevateyour relationship to the next level? I don't think so.
On thecontrary, its going to kill it.
So yes, you should be makingan effort.
In warm whether, you can also wear longer trousers.
So I would focus on having maybelinen trousers, maybe modal trousers, but very, very light fabrics, fabricsthat breathe, jersey, viscose, that type of blends.
I don't like cotton so much because I think, it's easy to make cotton look washed out and not very expensive.
I just thinkthat there are other better fabrics, but if you like cotton, thengo for cotton.
So ladies, what should you wear for sleep? Again, you can lounge a littlebit in your sleepwear, let's say you're watching amovie before going to bed.
I personally think it's absolutely fineand that's what we do in our household.
So I like to put on a really nicesilk pajamas or a nice silk negligee, the beautiful matching robe on top.
Ladies, here I'm wearing the matching set, the robe, the shorts, the camisole, and these lace details really helpfor the elegance and of course, the silk.
I think definitely, you should be wearing silk as much aspossible because actually when you sleep, your body and your skin wrinkles a lotas you press your body on the surface.
So it's really important to have silkas a material in between you and the surface.
Because silk actuallyreduces the wrinkles on your body.
That's why I use silk pillowcases as well when I sleep, because that will reducewrinkles in my face.
Yes ladies, when you wake up in the morning, your silky pajamas will be all wrinkly.
There are some silks that wrinkleless, but yes, as a common rule, you will get quite wrinkly.
But you know what? If you have one of these, then you will be fine.
You can just steam your clothesafter you wear them or before, or maybe you have your housekeepercan do it for you.
With silk, I would always say, you can wear just something in full silkor you can have a little bit of lace details.
I think lace is veryattractive and very feminine, and men like it a lot.
If you don't like silk, then go for other fabrics.
You can definitely have cotton.
As long as it's a matching set, then it looks good.
But when you start mix matching, that's when you start risking itlooking less elegance and expensive.
So they are not total man repeller.
They might be quite attractiveif your partner likes it.
I think it's important to actually askyour partner what he likes and doesn't like on you.
Because if you're just wearing thingsthat you think you like or you think he likes, you might never knowand you might put him off.
And that that can definitely havean effect in your life and in your relationship.
We don't only dress for ourselves, we also dress forattracting the opposite sex.
Women are not a sex object justbecause we like to be attractive to our significant other.
Mind you, wewant them to be attractive too.
So it's a two way street.
Now, I like pajamas a lot anddepending on your climate, you might be wearing differentpajamas different times of the year.
So if you are in a cold climate, you definitely want to sleep maybelong sleeves and long trouser pajamas.
But if I have exactly the same shorts, then this pajama canbecome a summer pajama.
I just exchange the trousers to this short.
If you are in warm climate, then you might want to have shortersleeves and maybe sleep in silk shorts, instead of long pajama trousers.
Ladies, I do recommend that you buy a pajamaone size bigger than your original size.
I have done the mistake of buying pajamasin my regular size and it just is not as comfortable as one size bigger.
And I think for pajamas, it's absolutely fine if it's a little bit oversized.
Also for warm weather, definitely nice negligee dresses, a little bit of lace detail, silk if possible.
Now ladies, this is not a party dress.
This is a thing that you wearat home to feel feminine, to feel elegant and to feel luxurious.
And don't forget your robe.
The robe is so important and you shouldhave multiple ones, not only one.
You can take any long dress or robe andjust wear it like a goddess at home.
It gives you a lot of feminineenergy and lot of confidence.
Have robe that matches your pajamas, maybe they come as a set.
But you don't have to have a matching robe only.
You can actually mix and match, as long as they go somehow inthe same color.
Now, ladies, be honest with me in the comments section.
What do you usually wear at home andwhat are you going to invest in now? I want you to have a discussion thereand encourage each other to upgrade your home wardrobe because that wardrobe is one of the most important wardrobe you will have.
Now ladies, I wantyou to watch my next video, how to look elegant in summer.