Hello my wonderful friend! Today's videois on how to make a girl think about you over text.
These tips are crazy effective.
I think what's going to surprise you the most ishow easy they are.
The truth is, texting women can be really intimidating and youcan feel really awkward, but when you know the right tips, attracting her andgetting her to think about you all the time is really easy.
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My name is Melannie.
I'm a Christiandating coach for men.
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I recently did this video, which is How to Make a Girl ThinkAbout You All The Time, and this video, which is This is What Makes Women ThinkAbout You All The Time.
And you guys liked them so much and found them sohelpful that I wanted to make another one for you today.
Now if you haven'tseen any of those videos you really need to because they have some incredibletips in them.
There are some links in the description below.
Now this video has todo with texting.
I've been getting a lot of questions about texting right now anda lot of us are relying heavily on texting when it comes do relationships.
And as I mentioned before this can be crazy effective.
I have kind of a quickstory to help illustrate this.
The other day I was on Instagram and I was doingwhat you do on Instagram and I was just kind of scrolling, right?Have you been there? Have you done that? And as I was doing this, in the back ofmy mind somewhere it kind of registered that I was seeing a new ad that I hadnever seen before, but I just kept scrolling.
And, you know, a day later samething happened.
Something very similar happened the next day as well.
And aboutthe fourth or fifth time I saw this ad it finally clicked and I was like”Wait.
What is this?” And so I watched, it was a video ad, I watched thefirst few seconds and I was like “Huh, that's interesting.
” Kept scrolling.
Sothen the next time I saw it I clicked on it.
“Okay, what is this?” And I was like”Where has this been my whole life? I need this right now.
Shut up and take my money!”Have any of you ever done this? I want to hear from you in the comments if youhave.
Just type “LOL!” and I'll know what youmean.
But have you ever done that? Oh my goodness it is so easy to do.
What in theworld does that have to do with relationships? Well, there's so muchinformation coming at us so quickly in today's world and if we don't stay onsomeone's mind, we're off their mind.
Now, obviously, there are some hugedifferences between an ad on Instagram and texting a girl.
You don't want topester her until she notices you by any means.
That is a terrible approach andthat is not what I'm recommending.
What my point is, is that if you want her tothink about you all the time you need to be proactive about that and you need tostay on her mind.
One of the biggest things that women want, this is how Godmade us, this is in our chemical makeup, guys, this is how we were made, is thatshe wants to be pursued.
That takes the attraction level up dramatically.
Likeseriously, guys, night and day difference.
And so if you want her to think about you alot then you need to be staying on her mind.
One of the best and easiest ways todo this is through text.
This is one of the easiest and less scary ways to flirtand to pursue.
Now sometimes that can be scary especially if you haven't feltlike you've had really good success texting girls in the past.
I have afriend and she was telling me that she had just kind of met this guy.
I meanthey hadn't really met, they had some mutual friends who set them up so theystarted texting.
They had never seen each other in person, never talked in person, they just started texting each other.
And what she told me is as they were textingand as they were getting to know each otherthat she started to crush so hard on this guy.
She's never even met him butshe was all twitterpated and thought he was the coolest person ever.
And you know what? She was thinking about him all day long.
And she mentioned howhe had been texting her and that in the past when she had texted certain guysand been texting with them there was no spark whatsoever and no interestand it was just kind of awkward and died.
Now being who I am, I am a coach, and so I started analyzing the difference between the texts.
Obviously with her permission and everything.
What I quickly realized isthat the guys she had been texting in the past, although very well-meaning, therewas no attraction because they didn't know how to create that attraction.
Theydidn't know the right tips to use when texting a girl to really attract her andget her to think about him all the time.
Whereas this new guy, he was a boss attexting.
He knew the tips and he knew how to attract her.
Consequently, she wascrushing on him hard and thinking about him all the time.
Now, this always makes me hurt inside really bad.
I always hurt so bad for theguys who don't know how to text.
They don't know how to attract her.
They aretrying so hard but they don't know the tips.
And seriously, this is why I decidedto become a coach, is because it's so so simple and so easy when you know theright tips.
When you don't know the right tips it tanksterribly.
So, we're gonna go over some of the tips today that will help youattract her like crazy and get her thinking about you all the time.
So, howto make her think about you over text tip number one is to make her laugh.
Youcan text her funny memes, you can kind of tease with her a little bit, joke withher a little bit, you can send her funny videos you find on the internet, or tellher a funny story about something that happened.
Anything that will makeher laugh is totally winning points.
As women we are, again, it's in our chemicalmakeup, we are attracted to men who make us laugh.
This is one of the traits womenlook for most in a man, is a man who has a good sense of humor and makes herlaugh.
And it makes sense.
When we make someone laugh we're feeling all kindsof good feelings, right? And we want to be around people who make us feel good.
Somaking her laugh is definitely a good goal to shoot for.
When you are trying todecide what to text a girl just sit down and come up with some ideas of somethingyou could do to make her laugh.
If there is a funny thing that has happened toyou throughout the day then take the opportunity to text herand let her know about that funny thing.
If you haven't yet seen this video ontexting be sure to check it out.
There's a link in the description below.
It willhelp you a ton too.
Tip number two is to remember and notice when big things arehappening in her life.
Let's say she has like a big businessmeeting, or maybe she's going to an exciting concert she's been lookingforward to, maybe her nieces and nephews are going to put on some kind ofproduction and she's going to watch that, maybe a new TV series she's reallyexcited about is launching.
Whatever it is, pay attention to those little thingsthat are going on in her life.
Set an alarm in your phonethe day before this is supposed to happen and text her and say “Hey! Goodluck on that meeting tomorrow.
I know you're going to rock it!” Or even text herthat morning.
Or “Hey! I noticed that this series is going live tomorrow.
Are yousuper excited?” The little things are really what matters to women.
The littlethings are what attracts her and what honestly makes her fall in love with aguy.
If she feels like you noticed those little things, she feels like you reallycare about her and who she is as a person.
Her needs and desires and wantsand feelings matter.
That right there is going to raise the attraction like crazy.
And honestly, if you can raise the attraction, you can get her to thinkabout you all the time.
Tip number three is to compliment her.
One of the easiestways to attract a woman and make her feel amazing and think about you all thetime is to compliment her.
As humans we allwants to be complimented, right? It makes us feel amazing.
I can't stress it enough, compliments are crazy effective.
So look for opportunities to just fit in acompliment.
Now you don't overdo them.
“Oh my goodness you are so amazing!Oh my goodness blah blah blah!” Then she just kind of feelssmothered and it's just not a good thing.
But fit in compliments when youcan.
And if you can do them in kind of a teasy way thenmakes it even more effective.
I did a whole video on how to flirt with girlsover text, looks like this, be sure to check that one out for more tips onflirting over text.
Tip number four you may have heard me mention before, butguys, it is so crazy effective I had to add it in this video too.
It is, when yousend her a good night and a good morning text.
This means, if it's a goodmorning text, your the first thing on her mind, and a good night text, you are thelast thing on her mind.
This is crazy effective.
It makes her feel connected toyou and it shows her that you're thinking about her and that you'resensitive.
This is so so effective.
So consider, especially if you know her alittle bit better, you don't want to overdo this if you haven't been textingher for a long time, but if you have known her for a while, yes, consider usinggood night and/or good morning texts.
And tip number five is perfect for stayingon her mind throughout the day, and that is to occasionally send her picturessomething going on in your day and/or pictures with you in them.
That is areally good way to stay on her mind.
It helps her feel close to you, especiallyif it's not like something “Hey! I just posted this on Instagram and thought I'dsend it to you too.
” If it's a picture that you took specifically to send toher, that is huge and it helps her feel special to you and she gets to lookat you which you know is a huge bonus.
Obviously not every picture has tobe of you or have you in it, but just taking pictures throughout your day, occasionally, you don't want to overdo it, and sending them to her, that is a reallygood way to stay on her mind all the time.
And there you have it.
Those are pretty easy tips, right? They take a little bitof practice, but once you do it a few times it becomes a piece of cake.
Thetruth is, being attractive to women, once you know how to do it, is really reallyeasy.
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[blooper beep] Put an alarm in your phone the day that that's supposed to happen or the daybefore and text her about it and say “Oh my goodness! I know that this ishappening!” Um.
[pause] Yes it is.
That was definitely happening right there.
It helps me, ithelps your friend, and it helps you.
You can keep each other accountable and helpeach other.
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Also be sure to shout this out on socialmedia and share it with a friend [messed up] Hey! Okay, I'm doing it again.
Also be sure to shout this- [laughter]I'm never gonna get through this.
Please?That would be great.