how to control your boyfriend to get anything that you want [Music] hello my beautiful ladies my name is Greta bill Ishida I'm dating and relationship coach for woman for the awesome high Valley woman secrets subscribed to my channel and hit the bell to be notified when I upload
new videos every Wednesday and Sunday so in this video I will share with you a top secret on how to control your boyfriend to get anything that you want but before I'll share with you the secret please take my test are you a woman of high value or
low value which I will drop down in the video description box below so let me share with you first four most common ways on how controlling a guy makes you lose a guy so you don't do his crucial mistakes a first most common way on how to lose
a guy by controlling him in any incorrect way is asking him where are you who you with what time you coming home so ladies this turns guys off big time because by asking him these questions you come across as you're really insecure and that you do not trust
him he's gonna be like you're not my mom you're not my dad I'm not a child why are you behaving with me this way the potential result of this will be that he will want to break through the cage that you are trying to set up for him
this way of control never works and it actually makes you lose a guy very fast the second way of how controlling a guy does not work is victimizing yourself and guilt tripping for example you never spend time with me we never hang out we never go to fear
we never go where guilt tripping another person does not work us the guy needs to give you what he wants to give you freely let's see you have that friend that is quite needy attention-seeking and now your friend wants more attention from you so we come to you
guilt tripping you Oh Greta we never go out you never call me you never tell me how you are you never ask me how I am you're just focused on yourself I feel so lonely ladies would you go out with that friend no you would be like hold
on a minute make yourself happy you cannot make me go out with you if I don't want to go out with you and if I will still go out with you because you're victimizing yourself I will go out with you because I feel petty for you that's not
love so lady is trying to control a man by victimizing yourself or guilt-tripping him will never work because he's not gonna go out with you because he feels petty for you a guy is not gonna be with the girl that he feels sorry for guy is gonna be
with the girl that he admires that he values but he respects a girl who makes herself happy and is a high value woman and ladies how to be a woman of high value please check out my free video right here the third way of how controlling a man
never works is when he is trying to break up with you and you're holding on to him you're saying please don't break up with me I love you so much don't leave me this way I have done this and this and this for you how could you just
break up with me like that ladies telling a guy not to dump you is another form of trying to control his behavior that does not work what's gonna happen instead he will start seeing you as low value as desperate as sad as a girl cannot live about him
the opposite of a challenge the opposite of what a man finds attractive ladies how to be a woman who is a challenge please check out my link or right here if a guy is trying to break up with you and you're going to try and chase him in
order to come him to stay with you there's a well backfire and even if he gets back to you because he feels sorry for you long term he will still break up with you because again no man will stay with a woman that he sees as a low-value
desperate and feels sorry for fourth way on how controlling a guy does not work is telling him what to do so for example if you are dating a smoker but you don't like that guy smokes and you want him to stop smoking so telling him to stop smoking
because you don't like that or threatening him to break up at him because he smokes or if a guy has a hobby that you do not like and you were aware of that Habeeb and you are getting into a relationship with him now you're telling him to leave
that hobby behind and not to do it anymore because you do not like it it is telling a guy what to do or what not to do does not work first she's gonna get rebellious and he's gonna be like you're not my mom you're not my dad I'm
a grown man who can do whatever I want to do I have a freedom to do what I want to do and the second thing what often happens is then you tell a guy but you don't like something about him he'll just start doing it behind your back
solely these these were four ways on how controlling and guy and trying to get him to please you does not work now ladies let me share with you this top secret how to control your guy to get anything that you want now the answer to this ladies but
don't get disappointed because a good part is coming okay you cannot control the other person you can only control yourself however this is a good part then you master self control of yourself this is when you end up controlling others and getting them to do anything that you
want how well then you make yourself happy people want to spend time with you then you are independent you're not focused on him but you are focused on yourself and do your own thing automatically he will want to know where are you and who you wet so by
being happy independent and focused on yourself you will end up controlling him the more you take responsibility for your behavior the more independent you are of your life the more you make yourself happy the more people want to be with you the more people are curious about you
the more people want to find out more so by controlling yourself you end up controlling others also and how to control your boyfriend to get anything that you want ladies when you are an amazing woman who is in control of her life who is focused on her life
who is making herself happy he will be so smitten by you that he'll do anything for you to give you what you want and ladies if you would like to know how to make a guy fall in love with you please watch my free video right here so
now it is that you know how not to control the other person and Werder not to lose them and how you can control the other person by controlling yourself first do not forget to take my self-awareness free quests are your woman of high value or low values you
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