There's something really cool I want to talkto you about today that I haven't talked about for a long time I believe on the channel andI haven't really described it in the way that I'll be describing it to you today.
And what we're talking about is the idea ofqualifying.
Getting a girl to qualify herself when you'retalking to her in an interaction.
You can even use this a little bit if you'redoing some online dating.
You can use this when you're on the phonewith a girl if you're doing a virtual date.
It's a way to get her even more invested inyou.
It goes like this.
First, you're going to get a woman engagingwith you, then you're going to get her attracted.
And then you're going to get her invested.
That's how it's all going to pan out here.
Engagement is you guys are talking, she'sengaging with you.
Attraction, meaning she's showing a littlebit of interest.
And invested is she's invested, she wantsto see you, she wants to continue this relationship or whatever you guys have going.
If you learn how to do this right and youdo this when she's already somewhat interested and you've already been engaging with her, what you're going to do is you're going to get her to chase you a little bit and startto get more invested in you.
If you don't use this, you may come off likeyou don't really care in terms of what kind of girl you want.
You may show her that “you know what, I'lljust go for anything”.
Really, you're killing two birds with onestone here because you're going to make her more invested.
Which again, I'm gonna be explaining to youhow this all works.
Get her invested, and then you're also simultaneouslyfiguring out if this is a girl that's going to be good for you.
If it's someone that you actually want tobe with.
If it's someone who has the qualities thatyou're looking for.
How you're going to do this is you're goingto get her to qualify herself.
She's going to, it's like an interview.
If you're interviewing someone, you want tosee if they're qualified for the position.
What they're doing is they're qualifying themselves.
They're trying to make you know, hey listen, I'm qualified for this.
And so you're going to say something, there'sa little formula that I have that you're going to say to her that is gonna get her to qualify.
Here's the formula.
It's going to be like this, you seem.
You seem cool or some sort of positive thingabout her but.
And you can fill those blanks in with whateveris going on in this situation.
I'll give you a few examples.
You can say this, you can say, you seem cool.
but are you really adventurous? You can say, you know what, you seem reallyinteresting.
but do you read books on a frequent basis? I'm curious, do you read books on a frequentbasis? You can say it like that? You seem, like again, you're saying like youseem interesting, you seem cool, I'm into this.
You're saying I'm into this.
but I'm notsure about you yet.
So it's I'm into this.
but I'm not sureabout you yet.
You're not going to literally say those wordsbut this is how you're giving off the idea.
It's like you seem cool, you seem interesting, you seem like a good person.
but are you going to be able to handle crazy adventureswith me.
Something like that.
Again, it can be whatever you want.
Those are just a few examples.
But when you're saying this to her, she isgoing to start qualifying herself like, no I am.
Yeah I'm adventurous or well I try to readas much as I can.
Or you can say you seem cool.
but do youlike going to concerts? Do you like to see live music? You're saying to her that's what you liketo do and she might say oh yeah I like to do that or yes sometimes.
This is you getting to know her, but alsomaking her realize that you're not going to just go for anybody and this is what makesher chase you because you're showing her that you're not desperate.
And when you're showing yourself as not desperateand not needy, this is going to up your value as a guy.
She's going to see you as a valuable guy becauseshe's going to see oh this guy won't just be with any girl.
Therefore this is someone that I want to bewith.
Here's the thing, this is only really powerfulafter there's some initial interest.
If you do this too soon in an interaction, they're gonna be like I don't really care to qualify myself to you.
They're not gonna care to want to do thatbecause there's not much initial interest.
Don't use this with the girl that you've onlybeen talking to maybe for a few minutes or maybe you guys just met on the dating appso you guys haven't been getting to know each other too much.
This is something you want to do when theinitial attraction is already there.
It's going to make it that much more powerful.
The formula is you seem or you are, you seem.
You can do whatever you want.
How about let's do this? I know there's gonna be a lot of people jokingaround and jokey responses and that's fine.
But let's try to take this seriously, it'llbe good for everyone.
Why don't you come up with your own and writein the comments so we can all see those.
You can write down “You seem whatever.
” Again, I know a lot of you guys are goingto not take it seriously but try to so we can just see some good examples and it givesus an idea and I feel like there'll be some good ones in there.
Write those down below.
Another thing you can do, and this is justa way of teasing her, this is not qualifying.
This is teasing her but also kind of qualifyingbut it's more in a jokey way.
You can say you definitely seem like my typeor I can definitely see you as my type, I think you're my type, however.
I'm really into and then say the exact oppositeof what they are.
For example, you can say you're kind of mytype and you're really cute, but.
sorry, I really go for like completely jet blackhaired girls, I'm just not into blondes.
And you say with a smile on your face.
You're saying the opposite of what they are.
Or you say, if they're kind of short, sayI just go for super tall girls like taller than me, that's what I'm looking for.
This is when you guys have already gottento know each other.
It's obviously a joke.
And you're just basically disqualifying herwith that statement as a joke.
You're making her disqualified because youlike the exact opposite, but you're doing it with a smile on your face so she knowsthat you're joking around.
So let's say that she doesn't have any tattoos, you can say you seem my type, you seem to be my type.
but I really like girls whohave like crazy tattoo sleeves and tattoos on their face and everything, that's justwhat I'm really into.
Again, you're joking around, you're disqualifyingher.
And she might say something like well, I guessI'm not your type.
And you can say I guess not, I wish this wouldhave worked out and just laugh it off and then continue the conversation and talk aboutsomething else.
That's what makes it fun, engaging and flirty.
I give you a lot more flirty, little techniqueslike this in my Hooked program which a lot of guys are using.
They're getting great results, they're actuallyusing these techniques just like the one I taught you today and getting girls way moreinvested in them.
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It'd be really cool and I will see you onthe next video and I'll look at your comments right now.