Hi guys! It’s me again, Beardy.
I’m with Kay and Larry.
Today, we’re gonna show you 5 tips on howa woman wants you to talk to her.
Well, this is kind of related to our previousvideo where we discuss the signs that show that a girl wants to talk to you.
See, that video was about the when.
Today, it’s about the how.
And since we wanna make sure that you’rewell prepared when you go talk to her, we’re also going to share with you one thing youdon’t wanna do if you want to spark attraction.
You ready? Let’s get started.
Humor HourAlright, I know you’ve been hearing that girls like guys with a good sense of humora lot.
Well, that couldn’t be more true, you know.
After all, laughter is the best medicine.
So here’s a little secret on how to talkto girls.
Always try to lighten up the mood and theconversation by injecting humor into it.
Girls want someone who knows how to laughand who knows how to make another person laugh.
Why, you ask? Well, there’s a couple of reasons.
Listen closely, guys.
First, it takes a smart person to crack quickand witty jokes.
And in case you didn’t already know, girlsare always looking for conversations with smart guys.
Second, a guy who knows how to use humor isa guy who knows how to see the positive things in life and not dwell on the bad things.
Lastly, being with a guy who has a great senseof humor guarantees that there’s never a dull moment with you.
No crickets on dates.
No awkward silences.
Awkward silences come when neither of youknow what to talk about.
But silence is NEVER awkward if you’ve alreadybeen having a good time laughing.
This is how to talk to your crush.
Girls want spontaneous conversations madefun by laughter.
However, like what we always tell you, becareful not to overdo it.
Women don’t want someone who doesn’t takethem seriously.
That’s not how you make a girl crazy foryou.
Recognize that some moments don’t alwayscall for a joke.
Like if she’s talking about her sad childhood.
You don’t need to throw a joke in to lightenthe mood.
You need to listen and empathize in this case.
Plus, there are things that may be funny toyou but are offensive to others, particularly to women.
So you need to tread carefully.
Don’t ever forget that women want you totalk to them while striking a delicate balance between being funny while also being serious.
And speaking of things you shouldn’t forget, here’s one: Don’t forget to check out our video about tips to make a girl crazyfor you.
There are tons of tips there you don’t wannamiss.
Same Level HavenSo guys here’s another way a girl wants you to talk to her.
She wants you to talk to her as if you’retalking to someone who’s the same level as you.
If you’ve been wondering how to flirt witha girl, this is it: Treat her with the same respect you expect to receive from her.
Historically, women were treated as if theywere the weaker sex.
These days, you’ve gotta recognize thatthey’re people just like you.
And so, when she displays one of the signsshe wants you to talk to her, go ahead and do the talking.
But make sure that when you do, you keep inmind that you’re talking to someone who’s your equal.
When you talk to her this way, she’ll seethat you clearly aren’t sexist or think you’re better than her.
It’s all about respect.
And when you give people a base level of respectand common decency, they’ll see you as a gentleman and a person they might like toget to know better.
Wanna know more about the signs she wantsyou to talk to her? We have another video that talks about justthat.
Check it out here.
Her not His Alright, here’s a story.
I was out one day with this guy, Greg.
It was our first date, but we’d been textingfor a couple of days before meeting, so I thought we were gonna click.
He insisted that we meet at this coffee shopnear his place.
Looking back, I wish I was already keen enoughto know that him choosing a place near him is already a huge red flag.
Well, I didn’t mind because I was goingto be around that area for a business meeting earlier that day.
So I agreed to the meetup.
And 30 minutes after it started, I found myselfitching to go home because he COULD NOT stop talking about himself.
It felt like he just wanted someone to listento how his day went, how successful he is in running his own business and how he doesn’tlike the coffee in that place but it was the nearest decent place to meet which is whyhe insisted on meeting me there.
He RARELY asked me a question and when hedid, he CLEARLY wasn’t listening.
So naturally, our first date was also ourlast.
And I texted him after and told him it wasn’tgonna work for me.
Guys, here’s the thing: People like talkingabout themselves.
And women are no exception.
But it’s a back and forth, not a one-sidedTED talk about how awesome you are.
And so, when you’re talking with a girl, make sure you’ve prepared some questions to ask a girl you like.
Make the conversation about her and not aboutyou.
This way, she’ll know that you’re genuinelyinterested in her.
She’ll feel comfortable talking about herselfbecause she’ll see that you actually want to know more about her.
And then she’ll feel comfortable with you.
But of course, when she asks you questionsabout yourself, don’t refuse to answer and try to make it about her again.
Otherwise she might think that you’re hidingsomething shady about yourself and she might just clam up instead of being more open.
So again, don’t overdo it.
Just keep the conversation flowing by askingthe right questions and answering her questions too.
And remember: It’s a back and forth.
Still not sure what questions to ask a girlyou like? Watch our video about it! It’s already racked up 1.
Hey! We know you’re aching to apply these tips, but hold on because we still have 2 more tips on the way! Plus at the end of this video, we’ll tellyou one way you should NEVER talk to girls.
And also, in the second part of this videowill talk about some mistakes that nice guys make, which are just as important.
Now, back to it.
IntelliGENTGuys, do you wanna know how to talk to girls like you’re a natural? Here’s how.
Learn how to make intelligent conversation.
Of course, before you do this, you’ll needto actually be somewhat intelligent first.
And when I say “intelligent”, I’m nottalking about being a genius and learning every word there is in the dictionary or knowingall the answers to useless trivia questions.
What I simply mean is to be intelligent enoughto be able to hold sensible conversations.
Be knowledgeable enough to know what to dowhen a girl looks at you.
Be informed enough about current events sothat you can actually respond when she asks about your opinion about them.
Learn basic concepts so she won’t thinkyou’ve spent most of your time behind a large rock inside a primitive cave.
In other words, treat every moment as an opportunityfor learning and self-reflection.
If you can do that, then you’ll find you’rea lot smarter than you might think you are.
By learning about the world around you inaddition to learning about yourself, you’ll be able to talk to her the way she wants youto – intelligently.
To get one step closer to becoming more intelligentand knowing how to approach a girl, watch this video we have about what to do when agirl looks at you.
Join the 1.
1 million people who already did.
Emotion Devotion When learning how to talk to your crush, thisis the #1 thing you need to know.
At some point in the conversation, you’regonna have to get deep and appeal to her emotions if you want her to feel anything for you.
So don’t just scratch the surface in yourconversation.
Here’s an example of what I mean:Kay, what did you eat for breakfast? Uhm, bacon and eggs.
See, I asked Kay a very simple question thatis close-ended, and not at all appealing to her emotions.
Kay, what did you feel when I asked you thatquestion? Oh well, Beardy, to be honest, I felt nothing.
It was just a basic question.
Although I am a little hungry now.
See, guys? If you know what to do when a girl looks atyou, you know that asking her a close-ended question – one that won’t take the conversationin the direction you want it to go – is boring.
Alright, let’s do a second take.
Kay, what do you love having for breakfast? Oh, I love bacon and eggs.
Did you have them this morning? Of course! Wow, that explains why you’re in such agood mood this morning.
Right? Yep! Thanks for notici-Neat! But I’ve still got a point to make.
You’re such a turd.
You can ask a girl a basic question, fellas.
But using words that appeal to her emotions- like the word “love” – makes her think about the question differently.
It also opens up more conversation.
What else does she love? So, the next time you talk to a girl, insteadof asking her what her favorite song is, ask her what kinds of music she appreciates.
Instead of asking her about her favorite color, ask her if she believes that different colors affect her mood.
Most important though, try to avoid askingquestions that are just answerable by simple “yes” or “no.
” Those are close-ended questions that aren’tjust boring, but also lead to nowhere except awkward silences.
You know what else is boring? Not knowing about the signs a woman wantsto be approached.
Stop being boring and watch our video.
1 million unboring people already did.
Oh hey, you’ve made it to the end.
Hooray! You deserve to know the one way you shouldNEVER talk to a woman.
Imagine if someone did it to you.
Here it is: Don’t speak about other people’slives.
In short, do not gossip.
If you do, then she’ll think that you’rethe kind of person who likes judging people and talking about none of the important things.
Remember, only small minds discuss people.
So think twice and think hard if before doingso.
The only person you should talk about is theperson you’re with and the person you are.
Do you know of any other ways to talk to womenthat are guaranteed to spark attraction? Let us know in the comments below.
Finally, do you want to know about the signsshe wants you to talk to her? Check out this video we have previously uploadedabout the 5 signs she wants you to talk to her.
In this video, we talk in detail about howyou would know when she actually wants to have a conversation with you and the one timeshe doesn’t.
If you’re having a hard time knowing whento approach a girl, then this video would be your next great find.